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Published November 25, 2008 09:11 am - Forget about TV’s “Jon & Kate Plus 8.” In Batesville, it’s Dwight & Cindy Plus 9.

Many thankful hearts at this house


Debbie Blank

Forget about TV’s “Jon & Kate Plus 8.” In Batesville, it’s Dwight & Cindy Plus 9.

Their Thanksgiving table will be bountiful as 15 other relatives descend on the rural Batesville home of Dwight and Cindy Collins.

On the table will be turkey, ham, mashed potatoes, dressing, broccoli casserole, a new corn dish, green beans, rolls, pineapple upside down cake, three pies and chocolate pudding.

The nine children there to enjoy the spread include the couple’s three biological sons: Michael, 21; Christopher, 18; and Robert, 7; and six foster kids: George, 19; Shelby, 15; Charlie, 6; Abby, 5; Dennis, 4; and Shy-Ann, 3.

Cindy Collins considers Abby her granddaughter. “Abby's mother aged out (of the state’s foster system), but is going through a little bit of a hard time” so they are raising her child temporarily. “Abby calls us Mamaw and Papaw. George is her uncle.”

The foster mom predicts she will feel fulfilled “when I sit back and look at them all eating what I cooked. It's just heartwarming seeing them all together in one room.”

Collins knows this holiday may be hard for a few of the young ones. “They're not used to some of our traditions. A lot don't have the family aspect, they never had a lot of people over. Some fall right in. It depends on the child. Some retreat.”

In 2002, Cindy Collins was working at a Harrison, Ohio, factory, then went on maternity leave. Her sister showed up at her doorstep with three children, begging Cindy to take them in. “Me and my husband just saw their faces and couldn't say no.” The Franklin County Department of Child Services was a valuable resource. Their second careers as foster parents “just took off from there.”

The couple eventually became licensed through Ripley, Dearborn, Franklin, Ohio and Switzerland counties so they may accept youth from all of those areas. They moved to a larger home in Ripley County three years ago so they could care for even more.

A process must be completed before officials can trust adults with foster kids. “You have to go through 20 hours of training,” a home inspection, police background check, tuberculosis test and a physical and be fingerprinted before obtaining a license. Ten hours of training must be completed each year. There’s an area class for foster parents at least once or twice a month.

“The Department of Child Services is doing a lot more to get the parents involved,” according to her. Team meetings bring together biological and foster parents with a caseworker to discuss the child’s needs. "I'm busy,” she says. “You have to have a car that goes and has the room. There are doctors' appointments, school meetings, therapy.” At one point, three children met with therapists on different days each week.

The Collinses receive per diems for each foster child – a fee per day for room and board. Each child gets Medicaid and free textbooks and lunch assistance at school, plus a $400 or so clothing allowance. “A lot of kids will come with just the clothes on their backs,” she tells. Outgrown items are saved for children who arrive later.

So far the couple have cared for 24 foster kids, including the six they have now. Daniel from Decatur County had the shortest stay, 26 days. “We both cried the day he left,” Cindy recalls. The long-timer is George, a high school senior, who arrived as a seventh-grader.

What did their three biological sons think when the family expanded? “That is something that concerned me,” their mom acknowledges. When the phone rings with a possible placement, “we give them (all children) a choice,” reports Dwight, a maintenance man at two Greensburg apartment complexes. “It's been a yes for the most part.” His wife adds, “They want to give and give.”

Robert always thinks that more children “would be fun to play with.” Christopher finds extra siblings to be “pretty cool. Your family grows with every child and you get to meet new people.”



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